Erotica As a Tool
Want to help me with my talk at Conversio Virium tonight (2/1/10) and KinkForAll Providence this Saturday (2/6/10)?
Do one of these exercises as a comment or email to me at mrjackstratton@gmail.com
They don’t have to be long, just enough to get the point across. I will credit you or not mention you, which ever you like. If you would like to be credited, include you name and that you’d like to be credited. I will assume anyone who doesn’t include that doesn’t want to be credited.
Thanks!
1. Articulation
Write a short essay or story to articulate a specific fantasy. Pick one thing you desire, an activity, a scene or scenario and explore where you would like to go with it in a detailed and explicit way. Picture the scene and imagine in what interesting ways it might grow. Take ideas to the next level and examine the roots of your desires and how they can more thoroughly be explored.
2. Seduction
Write a short essay or story to entice someone to do something you find arousing. Put your desired activity in the most appealing light to your reader. Think about what your reader(s) want and write about how your desires fit into their needs. Describe feelings and sensation while steering clear of specifics that your reader may be biased against or have preconceived notions about. Create intrigue and woo the reader by suggesting what you could do to make the activity even more pleasurable for them.
3. Negotiation
Write a short essay or story to arrange a scene that will satisfy all parties involved. Talk in depth about things you want to do while talking briefly but succinctly about what you don’t want to do. Elaborate on your desires and be forthcoming with things that you would be willing to compromise on as well as do in return. Ask questions that have more than yes or no answers. Asking if someone will do something will only get you a yes or no, asking under what circumstances someone might do something leaves the idea open for further negotiation.
4. Processing
Write a short essay or story to examine an activity, scene or scenario that you felt went either very well or very poorly. Write about what you liked about the scene in specific terms, as well as what you didn’t like. Explore why you felt it was success or unsuccessful and write about why you feel that way. Did something unexpected happen? What would you have changed? What would you like to explore further? How did it affect you?
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I wrote this last night at CV but didn’t share because it wasn’t finished, tell me what you think…
“There’s always room for champagne” she told me. We drank. Seeing her after all this time was all I wanted.
“I missed you.”
“I missed you too.”
She has not idea whats about to happen.
“Why so quiet?”
I told her I just liked looking at her. We kissed. She kisses me so soft and is surprised when I bit her lip. I leaned back and looked at her nipples poking through her white tank top. I want them. My hands moved up her shirt to her breast. They’re so small. Squeezing them feels so good. She’s breathing heavier. My skin is hot. I can feel my cock awakening. I want her.
“Take off your shirt.”
She does. I’ve never seen her breast before and brush away her long hair and see dark nipples. I’ve never seen nipples so dark. They grow when I pinch them. My mouth waters as I taste the salt on her breast. I pull her nipples with my teeth. Her hand pulls me in by the back of my neck as I suckle. She wants me too. I want to be inside her so bad. I want to tell her that I need her. She stands and as I look up she is towering over me, and I love the curve on the bottom of her breasts. I’m grabbing the back of her thighs and lift her up. She gasps when she feels the cold wall on her back. Her legs spread and I press myself on her. I’m going to take her pussy. I love the feeling of spreading her legs. I love the thought of them wide open. She is submitting to me.
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